Ask Adam: My Husband Had An Affair!

Dr. Sheck,

I’ve just found out my husband has been in a three and a half year affair!  Do you feel that it is possible to salvage our marriage?


Dear Betrayed,

This is an extremely challenging issue, yet in my experience it can be worked through.   [Read more…]

Ask Adam: Is My Husband A Sex Addict?

Dr. Sheck,

My husband and I have been married for six years, and have a three-year old son. My husband watches porn videos regularly and by himself. He’s been doing this since before our marriage. I’m not a prude and I can accept his habit. In fact, I wanted to share this part of his life with him, but he prefers to “practice” in solitude. It’s the rejection that hurts me so much.

Our sex life has been steadily declining since our son was born and now we have sex at most once or twice a month. I’m becoming very depressed, detached from him, and feel very insecure about myself as a woman now. I’ve told him this and he tries to reassure me, saying that he will stop, but he doesn’t. Is my husband a sex addict? What can I do?


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Ask Adam: I’ve Never Had An Orgasm!


Dr. Sheck,

I am a 23 year old woman in a committed relationship for the past two years. I love my boyfriend and want to eventually marry him. My one complaint is our sex life. He is a very considerate and tender lover. But, I have never had an orgasm with him! What can I do?


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Ask Adam: I Just Had A Baby And Husband Wants Sex!

Dr. Sheck,

It’s been two months since our first child was born.  The doctor said that after 6 weeks we can have sex again, but I don’t really feel like it.  My husband is definitely ready though.  What should I do?

Tired & Torn

Dear T & T

This is not uncommon and the short answer is to  [Read more…]