Most singles and couples that I treat ask me about my philosophy and perspective on relationships and couples counseling. It really is a great question and one that all clients deserve to have answered by their counselors, psychotherapists and coaches.
My beliefs are pretty simple and fairly humble. I’m not some grandiose “expert” who believes that he knows more about the couple than they do. Yes, I DO know a few things and possess a few tools from my training and close to twenty-five years of practice in the field of couples counseling. And I AM pretty gifted when it comes to assessing the dynamics of a relationship and translating it into language that EACH partner can understand (I’m sure you’re aware that our partners often speak different languages than we do and many also live in parallel universes!).
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